Are you ready to feel the spark in your relationship again? We’ll help you light it.
Why the Spark Dies in Long-Term Love... And What to Do About It
(Free eBook!)
You can have…
The attraction you felt in the beginning of your relationship, but stronger
Flirtation and attraction to your partner, every single day
Soul-deep intimacy where you feel deeply seen and felt
Full trust in your devotion and commitment to each other
Long-lasting, deeply connected love-making
More variation and playfulness in your erotic life
Intimacy and love that doesn’t feel like a chore, no matter how busy you are
You can have the spark, without years of couples therapy or woo-woo gurus.
And you can learn how to keep it - forever.
“We felt truly held. And that made the passionate explosion in our relationship possible. Our relationship feels playful and sexy again. It’s like meeting each other for the first time again.” - Jess
Why the intimacy & attraction dies over time.
There are four main reasons why loving couples lose the spark:
You get busy. Work, kids, and family all leads to intimacy, romance, and deep connection falling off the radar.
You feel like best buddies. Your partner becomes more like a friend or co-parent or roommate, than a lover.
You get bored. Your days, interactions, and love-making take on a repetitive nature, as you fall into routine, sapping the juicy novelty out of your relationship.
You “lose“ your libido. One partner feels less motivated or interested in intimacy, which causes tension in the dynamic.
This is so normal. And it so possible to change.
“We can’t put into words the transformation we’ve experienced while working together. It has re-inspired us on what we can be as a couple. This is the real deal.” - Tony
Couples Coaching
Retreats
“I’ve seen a huge shift in our relationship. I feel overall more connected with my partner. We’re a team. Our communication is better. Our sex is better. I feel heard, understood, and loved. ” - Chloe
How we bring back that sexy spark…
From a combined 20 years of coaching and research into love, intimacy, passion and relationship dynamics, we’ve discovered there are four main areas to bring passion back into a loving relationship.
The 4 EPIC areas we focus on in our retreats and coaching are:
Exploration - rediscovering novelty and trying new things together, both in the bedroom and in your relationship overall, to feel more juicy excitement & mystery
Polarity - how to use masculine / feminine dynamics to create an arc of attraction, aka creating the “I-want-you-now” feeling, anytime you want
Intention - getting clear on your vision together and your “why” behind the relationship and behind your love-making
Communication - seamlessly ways to communicate your needs, expectations, and desires so your conversations feel playful and insightful rather than draining
We’ve seen over and over how the 4 elements of EPIC create passionate intimacy and deep, trusting love. It seems like magic - except it’s repeatable, learnable, and 100% usable in your daily life.
“Our sex life has really evolved. We have a deeper understanding of ourselves and each other. We know how strong our connection can be and that inherently makes our sex feel much more loving.” - Sundeep
Our Story: James & Megan
Before we met each other, we had each spent over a decade studying sex, intimacy, and masculine/feminine dynamics. So when we first met on a dance floor in Bali, it was…. steamy!
And it has been ever since.
Even through moving in together, getting married, pregnancy, co-parenting our toddler, becoming business partners, and more, one thing has stayed the same - the juiciness, devotion, and trust in our relationship has only deepened over the years.
Of course, not every moment feels passionate and polarized, but we confidently know the tools and practices to rekindle the spark anytime it starts to die down.
Over the last 5 years, we’ve worked closely with hundreds of couples to help them feel more in love, more passionate, and more devoted than ever before.
This work has changed our lives forever - and it’s our joy and gift to pass it on to you.
